As back to school is now well under way, kids of any age have probably already experienced a "shooter drill"- a label I purposefully avoided in the post title. There are so many things about this fact of life that nearly bring me to tears. It would be seriously irresponsible to NOT have drills and training in schools, for any age. That includes those discussions about "bad people who do bad things" and the flip side that most people are good and are trying to keep each other safe and happy. Mr. Rogers' advice to "find the helpers" feels more important than ever. Especially on lockdown drill days.
And yet...
The conversations around these drills (no matter how calmly and gently conducted) and the practices themselves (including the necessary rattling doors and potentially loud noises) are certainly going to generate varied levels of anxiety. The best case is that those who find their insides tied up in knots will say so. But all too often, they notice others dealing with things easily and hesitate to admit their anxiety reactions.
| RANDOM HOUSE, 2025 |
NOT LIKE EVERY DAY: Finding Calm During Lockdown Drills is written by Stephanie V. W. Lucianovic and illustrated by Gabrielle Grimard. Endpapers are charningly and lushly dense with images that will appeal and offer familiarity and comfort. Opposite the title page is a message from school psychologist Dr. Christine Chester, and discussion questions follow the story with a short list of resources for adults. My years in classrooms with kids of many ages and needs assured me that the visual narrative and the text reflect these drills accurately, and in ways that reveal their seriousness and need for sensitivity to individual reactions. The facial expressions are worth extra attention, and they are both subtle and sensitive during the preparation, drill, and afterwards.
I haven't seen anything like this and would have valued it and used it across any ages and classrooms. To think that older kids are able to "take it" more easily is not necessarily the case. A young child can be overwhelmed by trying to sort real from not real (despite the teacher's gentle reminder that this is practice only, NOT REAL).
But older students can also carry the baggage of multiple years of drills, and perhaps even actual drills due to suspicious persons or warnings. Those can build a callous over emotional responses OR they can hypersensitive someone who has become more able to process the never-ending news of school shooting and other attacks. That is especially true as kids get into social media at younger ages where reels or other targeted notices expose them to stories and details that rub emotions raw.
I hope everyone who reads this post will seek out and read this book, then suggest it to any and all classroom adults (parents, teachers, principals) as an essential tool to support the necessary but dreaded drills. it merits everyone's attention, on ANY day.
| CAROLRHODA BOOKS, 2024 |
On a lighter note, this author has a picture book with lively and delightful text and illustrations showing strong emotions of another kind. TOUCH THE SKY, also written by Lucianovic and illustrated by Chris Park. In this brief story Vern loves the sense he experiences (vicariously) when another kiddo PUMPS, feet touching the sky, eyes wide, and seeming to fly.
Unfortunately, Vern can't figure out how to PUMP and achieve this self-propelled movement. His face and body language reveal both determination and frustration in stages, with action-packed sweeps of color bringing the page to life as his failed attempts twist, twirl, and deflate him. Others laugh but before he gives up, Gretchen's toes tickle the sky overhead and Vern longs to do THAT! Even though they had never talked before, coaches and encourages, offering a chant for the actions and this sage advice:
"It feels hard until you get it, then it's not."
The exuberance of success is powerful, but so are the many pages of simple, minimalist dialogue and sweeping movement, as are the lovely closing pages. Anyone who has ever muttered that "kids need more grit" mantra, or otherwise bemoaned a young generation locked onto screens, will celebrate Vern's success and also find here a treasure os a story to share.